What Do You Really Deserve?
In my line of work I often come across people who want the better lifestyle, the wealth, time and fun they’ve dreamed of for so long. Only thing is most of them don’t believe they deserve it, and that’s exactly why they don’t get it. There’s nothing stopping them except themselves.
I’ve been able to assist many people in creating a new lifestyle through personal development and mentoring, it’s what I do for a living. It’s those who know that they do in fact deserve to have success that prosper. You see, everyone wants more abundance in their lives, that’s no secret, but there’s something holding them back. There could be countless reasons in fact, although I believe it all comes down to a poor self image and “deserve-ability” issues. Perhaps something happened in their childhood, they were lazy or all thumbs and couldn’t get a skill just right. This causes them to create a limiting belief that some how they’re not worthy to reap the rewards of success. Now I’m not a psychologist or have any real training in that field but I have been an avid student of personal development and empowerment for several years now. I see the same patterns over and over. In fact I first identified them in myself not so long ago. That was a pivotal moment in my life when things drastically changed for me.
We all deserve to be happy, to be wealthy, to have fun experiences, travel and explore… yet we have something in our heads saying, “no you’ve not worked hard enough” or “your ideas are not good enough”. That’s just negative self talk that’s propagated by society and a false sense of our own true abilities. Not enough of us believe we deserve better. It’s funny, we never ask ourselves if we deserve sunlight or fresh water or heat or even clean air to breathe. Yet we all enjoy them without ever questioning it. These are all merely things in different energy forms. Wealth is no different it’s just a concept that takes different forms – bills, coins, precious metals or numbers on a bank statement. Ultimately it’s just an idea that you have more trading power. Think about it, before there was currency in the world we traded goods to get what we wanted. We established a “value” for something and then agreed upon a trade. In today’s world it’s no different we have an agreed upon value for our currency and albeit a twisted value for our services, although the latter does not seem to be debatable too much at least in the “job” world. We make trades, we negotiate deals we even agree upon a price for a chunk of our lives in exchange for a salary. It’s a whole other story as an entrepreneur, but I’ll save that for another time.
The point I’m making is that we do so deserve to be happy and to feel fulfilled. If we deserve to experience sunlight and water and clean air, then we deserve to feel the energy of abundance, wealth and prosperity. Life is meant to be an adventure, fun, enjoyable and just feel good. We all have desires whether it be for experiences, things or relationships – they all equate to the “feelings” those people, experiences or things create within us. As far as we know we are the only species on the planet that does things for enjoyment. Every other living thing does what they do out of instinct or just following the blueprint set in nature. But we are unique in that we can FEEL! I believe that means something – that we are here to truly feel, and we do that through our experiences.
I feel great when I can make a difference in someones life by showing them just how to create wealth and true freedom in their lives with what I do (www.CreateAbsoluteFreedom.com). When someone can go from a point of despair in their lives to a point of hope, belief and prosperity by simply changing their perspective – that’s rewarding. So feel good and know that we all deserve happiness in whatever form it comes in. You can change it, just get out of your own way.
